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Big Katt, 

            I can help you find a place around where you are we have a large network of church's and people that will help you.  

And I know for a fact that you can get the state help to you and the kids get into a safe place and they will give you assistance with your children, and you all so can go to school and educate your self so you can do something with your life and never be dependant on anyone but take care of your children.

Please stay in touch and really my heart goes out for all of you young ladies trying to make it on your own 

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Diamond My heart goes out to you, did you find a place to go ? If not I will get on line and find you a safe place to go.  I am so sorry PLEASE do not go back to your husband or father of your child. You deserve better then this, you deserve a life and so does your child.  Do you have a car ? I am in N Houston we are currently trying to learn how and raise the funds to set up safe houses for young ladies such as your self. PLEASE let me know I will find you a place in your area to go for a while to be safe and get on your feet.

God loves you and so do we, so don't give up 

Big kat, Wow what a story it sounds like you are only hear by the grace of GOD, I am so sorry for your life it is a story that needs to be told to help others speak out and not to fold, I am inspired by YOU and your love for your children to get away. And God has a plan for your life KAT I am not sure where exactly you are at but we can find you a safe place until you get on your feet and situated and I would like to invite you to come to church here in Houston at Champion Covenant Church at 13111 Bamell N Houston Road Houston Tx. 77066 mid week at 7 p.m. on Wed. and Sundays at 10:00 Am / They have a Community Center and a Day Care and a great place that has compassion and love for others, I have a 23 yr. old daughter and I try to encourage her to understand that if you want a good life and a happy life you have to be cautious where you meet the man of you dreams and what characteristics he has now cause if they are bad they will only get worse after marriage, And YOU KAT are a strong, exceptional women that is still just a child yourself that has been forced to grow up on your own, but you can change your life, you have chosen to not have a life of drugs and violence and STICK to that and you can teach your sons the right way to go and under NO circumstances do not ever go back to that man, Do not allow him any rights of your children you deserve better then that. NO MAN HAS ANY RIGHT TO EVER PLACE A HAND ON FEMALE I DO NOT CARE THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULES. Enough is enough PLEASE do not go back. I think you need some good counseling tat will teach you WHO you are that you deserve to be loved, you deserve a great life and YOU can be a great mother you can be to your beautiful little boys what you would of like to have had growing up. And Kat God can ive you direction and wisdom to get where you need to be. life is a process but you can one day have a home of your own, a good job and a husband that adores you. you can have it all KAT you deserve that. I will help direct you to et housing and into school if you know what you want to do and they will pay for your schooling and give you day care for your babies, While you get on your feet. You can go forth and make something out of your self you have already showed the kind of strength that only winners have so now is not that time to look back or give in, Cause if you do your ex husband will end up killing you or one of your children and you deserve more then that.

I have truly learned that when I sit in the midst of my own pain it only overwhelms you, and YES there was days I wish I was dead,  but in the midst of it all I have learned it is not my time to go, and if I am going to live on this earth then maybe I can reach out and help someone else realize that when you reach out of your box and help others what you are doing is really helping yourself out.

I have come to learn that a smile changes other peoples day, and I promise to never allow my loved ones my friends not to know what God has done for me. I had a hard time even praying before I prayed everyday for my children for Gods hand of protection to be upon their life and when JOE was killed I was devastated and angry I thought how come God could allow that to happen to me and I had to wake up to the facts of life GOD gives us all choices and when we choose to get in the car and go fast and not wear a seat belt and w choose to do things that our life is made up of choices, And MY GOD said he would be there to cover me at times when it was raining to hold me when I was hurting but he never said I wouldn't have hurt, pain and trials in this life and our life is seasons we go through and it is how we respond to what we go through really shapes us into who we were created to be. Before the death of my son I was haughty, arrogant and really only cared about my family, myself and those close to me, I didn't think it was my job to worry or care for anyone else, I was not a nice christian I was more a member of a country club then a member of society and it amazes me when I look back at who I was I don't like that person. And if it was not for Gods grace on me I would of not made it.

God has given me much mercy and grace. And I want moms and dads to understand we don't have the promise of tomorrow so enjoy everyday every-minute with your child like it could be the last, My daughter when she was about 2 every 5 minutes she would say I love you mommy I love you daddy, I love you bubbie ( is what she called her brother) and as she got older it never stopped every time she went out of the room she told us all that she loved us, I used to say to my husband do you think she is insecure about our love, But she made us all speak it I love you with a kiss and hug and I thank God everyday and today for her she has been such a blessing such a joy in our life cause at 9:50 p.m. on christmas night when my 18 yr. old son walked out that door he said mommy I love you, Daddy I love You, Sissy I love you and at 10:05 he was pronounced dead in lying in the middle of the street. And she taught us all to speak love it is so important to not go to bed upset at those you love, to not go out that door unless things are right, I have spoke to parents that their kids ran out of the house screaming they were fighting and said cruel words to one another, I have heard lots of stories and we can't bring back anything we say. BUT we can choose the words we say today and what we do today so please try to make a difference in other peoples lives when everything is taken from you and you have been stripped it is the only thing that matters is us humans on this earth, neighbors, family

For right now they have not removed her, and from what I understand they are going to give her 60-90 days after they sell it to get out in the mean time she is believing for a miracle they have the house priced way to high right now to even sell, I am hoping that I can some how come up with a miracle to help her buy the house but until they-lower it in this market it s not going to sell right now.

I would of run personally on a 3 day eviction but I have seen do move on her behalf and she has stood her ground and I think that she will end up with a miracle in her life. We will see i just think it is amazing and these companies have to start working with the home owners I know someone in Houston that their mortgage company actually took off al the back fee's and interest and brought their mortgage down to the lower appraised value it is today instead of the what they financed it for and it is time they start getting real and helping out the people, I think they have to all so take a large responsibility for the shape our country is in today and start working with people anyway they can to keep them in their home, Pretty soon they are going to have more empty houses across this country then they have full ones if they are not careful.

I HAVE TO TELL YOU MY COUSIN LIVES IN DALLAS AND SHE IS 26 MONTHS ON HER HOME CURRENTLY THROUGH COUNTRY WIDE AND THEY SOLD THE PAPER OFF TO WELLS FARGO, AND SHE HAS RESPONDED TO THEIR LETERS TOLD THEM SHE IS TRYING TO GET A HEAD SHE HAS APPEARED IN COURT ON THREE OCCASIONS AND SHE WAS SERVED THREE DAY EVICTION NOTICE, NEVER LEFT THE HOME AND THEN THEY KEPT ON GIVING HER 3O MORE DAYS THEN IN DECEMBER THEY PLACED HER HOME UP FOR AUCTION AND THEY DIDNT SELL IT, AND THE JUDGE TOLD HER TELL ME WHAT YOU CAN DO AND SHE TOLD THEM BY THE TIME I PAY THE ELECTRIC, WATER AND BUY FOOD I HAVE NOT ENOUGH MONEY LEFT FOR NOTHING THEY HAVE TURNED HER DOWN OVER AND OVER AGAIN FOR ASSISTANCE, SO THIS WEEK THEY CAME AND KNOCKED ON HER DOOR AND THE REALTOR SAID I HAVE BEEN ASSIGNED TO SELL YOUR HOME AND NORMALLY YOU WOULD HAVE TO BE OUT AND SHE SAID I CANT I HAVE NO PLACE TO GO, SO THERE IS HOPE IF OWN AND ARE NOT RENTING, SO I THINK GOD CAN GIVE YOU FAVOR AS YOU MOVE FORWARD AND THE GREATEST THING ABOUT LFE IS YOU CAN ICK UP AND START AGAIN.  I WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOUR PAINTINGS OR YOUR WEBSITE OF YOUR PAINTINGS. I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU DIVINE DIRECTION AND STRENGTH

WELL THAT IS SOMETHING WE CAN DEFINATELY LOOK INTO AND LOOK AT WHERE ARE YOU LOCATED, AND HAVE YOU CONTACTED YOUR LOCAL CHURCH'S TO SEE IF THEIR IS ANY ASSISTANCE AT THIS TIME THEY CAN GIVE YOU ? I AM OPEN FOR BRAIN STORMING AND ANYTHING WE CAN DO TO CHANGE THE CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES OF SO MANY OUT THERE AS GAS PRICES GO UP AND LIFE GETS HARDER WE HAVE TO FIND A SOLUTION TO HELP CAUSE IF WE DON'T APPARENTLY KNOW ONE ELSE IS GOING TO. ALL I KNOW IS FOR YOU TO COPY AND PASTE THE POSTING AND ADD YOUR WEBSITE OR PAINTING INFORMATION TO IT AND LETS ET IT OUT THERE THE MORE PEOPLE THAT JOIN IN WITH US THE STRONGER WE CAN BECOME.

All my life as a preachers kid I was around a lot of loss I even at 25 went through the loss of my older brother, and the pain was bad.  But on Dec. 25th, 2005 when I lost my son just 18 yrs. ago from a fatal auto accident my heart completely broke in two. And even today it is better there are moments that it is not, And after the the first 6 days the shock bein to ware off of me and my daughter and husband, the phone calls stop coming and reality sets in that MY beautiful, handsome, presious son who I gave birth to that I nurtured to be adult, that I cared for and loved was never coming home again.  As I stood on in the middle of the street with my dauhter and husband that christmas night my world was torn apart I thought I had been through tough times, I thouht I knew what hard ache was I had lost my mom, my brother, my grand mother, my mother in law, close friends but NEVER in my life had I felt such pain.  And you want them to live on in your life but your friends don't know what to say to you, they do not not know how to react or how to respond to you, they think if we don't talk about it somehow that is better but that is not the case WE MOTHERS and FATHERS have to talk about it, In my heart he will live on forever in his siters and Fathers heart he will live on forever and when you hear people say my son isnt doing wel in school I dont know what to do, or my son is on drugs what do I do, Or I am loosing my house.  I am sorry but all these things you cn make it through brick and morter mean nothing, Bad Grades mean nothing, drugs if they are under age you can force them to get help, If you are stuck in your car and know place to go you have each other and you can start over again.  I was on elevator in December 2 years ago the first christmas after our loss and I had 2 ladies get on complaining that they wouldnt be able to be with so and so this holiday and they just hated it complaining about everything and I wanted to YELL HEY wake up, Be thank ful you can be with them next week, next month NEVER will my family be whole again NEVER will we ever sit down at the table for thanksgiving or Christmas and it feel right again.  I just want you to know that the worst thing in this life is the loss of a child it is a club NONE of us ever asked to be a part of and we don't like it but we are. And my husband and I went and spent the first 90 days trying to help and be there for a family that lost their 27yr. old from accidential over dose, bad combination of drugs and we have seen another side of ain we never wanted to know. BUT PLEASE CELEBRATE THE LIVING AROUND YOU THOSE YOU HOLD SO DEAR TO YOUR HEART AND LOVE

WE WERE SO BLESSED WITH TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN THAT WERE AND HAVE BEEN GIFTS TO ME FROM GOD AND IN THE LOSS OF MY SON AT ONLY 18, HIS SISTER HAS BECOME TRULEY OUR SUNSHINE ON CLOUDY DAYS, OUR JOY IN THE MIDST OF OUR DEEP PAIN, WHEN I DIDNT FEEL LIKE UNCOVERING MY HEAD I HAD TO FOR HER, WHEN I FELT LIKE I COULDN'T GO ON ANOTHER DAY I HAD TO LEARN TO TAKE ALL TE GOOD FROM MY SON JOE's LIFE AND THANK GOD I HAD HIM IN MY WORLD FOR 18 YRS. AND SOMEDAY I WILL JOIN HIM AGAIN.  IT IS TRULY A PROCESS YOU GO THROUGH AND MY LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WHAT I THOUGHT WAS IMPORTANT DON'T MATTER ANYMORE, AND IT IS HARD TO GO ON TO LOOK FORWARD CAUSE YOU WANT TO LIVE IN THE PAST BUT MY HUSBAND AND I CONTINUE EVERYDAY TO TRY TO PLACE ONE FOOT IN FRONT OF THE OTHER AND THAT IS ALL WE CAN DO.

Check out my blogs and we are trying to form a organization to help those in distressed situations, i am so sorry about your losses I understand, I wish there was more I could do but our ands are tied right now.

Ashley Dawn there is a place in St Louis you can contact they will help you St Louis Dream Center / ask for a David Meyers you can google them and check it out we are all so in the process of setting up a non-profit group that can help others, check it out when you get a chance, I wish their was more I could do right now for you. Please stay in touch and all so contact some local church groups.

Mark, 

        You seem to be a smart guy and I would like for you to read my blog we are looking for caring smart business people like your self, That can make a diffrence.

I can help you wit runaways, Dru Addicts that are at the bottom et help we are associated with a organization in CA that takes people in that are really commited to chaning their life in a 1-2 yr. proram they have been established for 15 yrs. and what young men and women I have seen come out of their it is astonishing to me when they show before and after photos of them and where they came from. The only thing required is that they want to CHANGE. Youth 12-17 and Adults 18-60

Thank You and I have lost my brother, my mother, my grandparents, And when you loose a child it is PAIN I didnt know exsisted. And I shout out to al parents dont sweat the little things love your children spend every minute you can with them, build memories with them even when you have to much put it aside because one day they may not be there.  I thank God today that I spent every minute I had listin to my kids, spending time with them, and If I can do one thing I want to help mom's know when they are over welmed, when they think they can go on any more they can make it cause their children need them. God bless you and be wit you 

Rosie, 

         I think that we need to have 6-12 smart business people such as yourself and I and people that can all accountable to each other.

Then we can get this started and incorporate as a non profit if we can get commitments of 1000 - 5000 people and then set up the corporation. Those on the board maybe to pay in 4-5 months up front I would do that so we could get the legal infrastructure in place and go from there and reach out and help some of these people that are on here that need help for a month or two and I don't mean send them money but pay their bills directly, send them a food card and try to help them get back on the right track and ask them then to commit to join, Some where we have to establish faith and trust in others, Reaan always said TRUST but verify and I think that it could spread real fast, we could invest the money to grow more and be there to really help others we can lower the fees there is a lot we could do if we put all of our heads together to do this. And it is just a matter of spreading the word to others. Maybe some can only pay $5.00 others $25.00 when you take in numbers like 50,000 people thats not a lot when you look at our population in america. I do think we can cause a positive effect cause we can't depend on this goverment to ever do anythin for us.

Before my mom passed away she belonged to a similar oranization she started with $5.00 monthly and everytime she went to the doctors or needed to buy medcine and did not have the money and had to pull from another area such as electric or water she would send in her bills and they would send her back receipts of the paid bills it was amazing to me and I have tried to find out about this roup but I understand it was disolved a few years back. And I tougt what a wonderful group to belong and that is what really inspired me to think out side of the box, I hear preachers say send me a dollar a day and when you have 100,000 thousand or 200,000 thousand people sending in $30.00 a month that is a lot of money.

So help me spread the word and lets get some more professionals involved and see what we can do to change our life our futures and our childrens future.